Episodes

4 Simple Things You Can Do
June 24, 2026

4 Simple Things You Can Do

What if your marriage was only a small adjustment away from going to the next level? Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk to Jim Daly about 4 things you can do that'll keep the communication strong with your spouse. Also, Greg Smalley breaks down why simple habits add up over time. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Blended and Redeemed Focus on Marriage Assessment Redeeming Your Blended Marriage Download the Godcaster App Conversation Starters for Date N...
Building Trust & Friendship
June 22, 2026

Building Trust & Friendship

Just like your house needs a solid foundation, your marriage needs trust. Dr. Henry Cloud joins Jim Daly to share about why showing empathy is required for building trust. Then, Erin Smalley explains why trust is necessary for having a deeper friendship with your spouse. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Trust Focus on Marriage Assessment Learning to Build Healthy Trust Download the Godcaster App Counseling Consultation and Referrals Support This Show...
What Every Woman Wants from a Man
June 17, 2026

What Every Woman Wants from a Man

Every wife longs to feel safe in her marriage. Jim Daly and Brant Hansen discuss why women find it so attractive if a man seeks to protect them. Also, Greg Smalley talks about how men need to step up and take responsibility for leading their wives well Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. The Men We Need Focus on Marriage Assessment Being the Man Your Family Needs Download the Godcaster App The Unique Matter of Manhood Support This Show! If you enjoyed l...
The Male & Female Brains
June 15, 2026

The Male & Female Brains

Men and women tend to respond to stress and situations very differently. Jim Daly and Gary Thomas address the differences in brain chemistry between husbands and wives. Then, John and the Smalley's discuss what a husband can do if a wife keeps bringing up the same problem in conversations. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Loving Him Well Focus on Marriage Assessment How to Positively Influence Your Husband Download the Godcaster App Counseling Consul...
Accepting When Your Mate Says "No"
June 10, 2026

Accepting When Your Mate Says "No"

If you want a good relationship, you sometimes have to tell your spouse, "No." Arlene Pellicane talks about a time where she had to have a tough conversation with her husband on learning to accept her "No." Also, Greg and Erin share how working through tough scenarios can lead to better friendship with your mate. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Focus on Marriage Assessment How To Avoid Bad Influences On Your Marriage Practice Makes Parent Podcast Ho...
When Kids Get in the Way
June 8, 2026

When Kids Get in the Way

Kids are a blessing, but they also require you to be more intentional to spend time with your spouse. John and the Smalley's open up about times they felt disconnected in their marriages when raising children. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Dave and Ashley Willis about making time for dates with your spouse, even if you have little kids. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Focus on Marriage Assessment How To Avoid Bad Influences On Your Marriage Practice Makes...
Dates Don’t Need to be Expensive
June 3, 2026

Dates Don’t Need to be Expensive

What if some of the best date nights didn't cost money? Jim Daly talks with Jay and Laura Laffoon about how you can have a wonderful date with your spouse for not much money. Also, John asks Greg and Erin how they're learning to still have dates together, in a season with grown adult children. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Fundamentals of Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Discovering God's ...
Your Spouse is Still Your Friend
June 1, 2026

Your Spouse is Still Your Friend

Are you and your mate best friends? Howard and Danielle Taylor join Jim Daly to make the case for why friendship in marriage is necessary for a thriving relationship. Then, Dr. Greg Smalley shares the most important thing you can do to keep your friendship alive. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Fundamentals of Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Discovering God's Design for Your Marriage Is You...
P.L.A.N. for a Better Marriage
May 27, 2026

P.L.A.N. for a Better Marriage

What if a small change you made had the biggest impact on your marriage? Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey share four steps you can take to improve your relationship. Also, Greg and Erin explain why it's good to make time for having fun, even if you are very busy. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Filling Your Marriage With Joy Crazy Littl...
The Needs of Military Spouses
May 25, 2026

The Needs of Military Spouses

Today, we honor the sacrifices of our military and spouses of veterans. Erin Smalley shares some of the statistics of how military families battle loneliness. You'll also hear from Jessica Manfre, who joins Jim Daly to share about how you can reach out to those serving in the armed forces. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Never Alone for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Hope and Encouragement for Military Fam...
When Your Spouse Needs to Get Healthier
May 20, 2026

When Your Spouse Needs to Get Healthier

What do you do if your spouse is making unhealthy lifestyle choices? Dave Willis talks with Jim Daly about how his wife Ashley encouraged him to go to the doctor and deal with his health issues. Plus, Greg and Erin address how to respond well if you've tried talking to your mate about their diet and lifestyle, but he or she hasn't listened yet. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Naked and Healthy for your donation of any amount! Focus ...
Staying Healthy in the Midlife
May 18, 2026

Staying Healthy in the Midlife

The midlife years of marriage are filled with changes, but can also be very rich. Lisa-Jo Baker joins Jim and Jean Daly to address some of the ways she had to adjust to the middle years of life. Then, Greg Smalley opens up about struggles men usually face during that time-period. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Middle Matters for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Thriving as a Wife and Mom in the Middle Y...
Vulnerability is Healthy
May 13, 2026

Vulnerability is Healthy

Does it feel like conflict sets your marriage back instead of making it stronger? Erin opens up about how her and Greg struggled to get along early on in their marriage. Then, Jim Daly chats with two couples - Milan and Kay Yerkovich and Marc and Amy Cameron - on how to be honest about your emotions with your spouse, in ways that don't lead to big arguments. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book How We Love for your donation of any amount...
Healthy vs. Unhealthy Spouses
May 11, 2026

Healthy vs. Unhealthy Spouses

When have you last examined your own flaws instead of fixating on your spouse's? Greg describes how distressed couples have a tendency to focus too much on their mate's issues instead of their own. Plus, Les and Leslie Parrott share how to tell if you're a healthy or an unhealthy spouse. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Healthy Me, Healthy Us for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Improve Yourself, Improve Your...
When the Perfect Storm Comes
May 6, 2026

When the Perfect Storm Comes

Most couples go through a season where you're overwhelmed by many challenges all at once. How do you persevere? Greg explains about a time where he and Erin felt like they went through the perfect storm. You'll also hear Jim Daly chat with Dr. Josh and Christi Straub about how they worked together through a number of unforeseen circumstances. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Famous at Home for your donation of any amount! Focus on Ma...
3 Rs for a Deeper Relationship
May 4, 2026

3 Rs for a Deeper Relationship

How are you being intentional to make your marriage better? Rhonda Stoppe and Jim Daly will encourage you with 3 Rs - remember, repent, return. Also, John, Erin and Greg bring up how to respond well if your spouse is caught in unrepentant patterns of sin. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book If My Husband Would Change, I’d Be Happy for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How Reframing Your Perspective Can Transform ...
Contract vs. a Covenant Mindset
April 29, 2026

Contract vs. a Covenant Mindset

What's the difference between a contract vs. a covenant type of love? Dr. Greg Smalley answers that question. Then, Jim Daly talks with Dr. Gary Chapman on what real commitment in your marriage looks like. At the end, Erin and John will share what you can do if you're in a tough spot as a couple. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book A Simple Guide for a Better Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Finding New Ways to Th...
Praying Through the Tougher Times
April 27, 2026

Praying Through the Tougher Times

Prayer is one of the key ingredients to helping you experience a deeper relationship with your mate. Kathi Lipp joins Jim Daly to discuss the difference prayer can make in your marriage. Also, Erin Smalley shares about couples she's seen persevere through serious challenges by relying on God. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Praying God’s Word for Your Life for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Bringing Purpos...
If You Aren’t Doing Well Spiritually
April 22, 2026

If You Aren’t Doing Well Spiritually

Most couples go through a season where you're not connecting like you want. Erin Smalley addresses how spiritual connection matters, and that a lot of couples are struggling in this area. Plus, Jim Daly and Debra Fileta give some thoughts for getting on the same page spiritually again. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Love in Every Season for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Loving Your Spouse Through the Sea...
Keeping Attraction Alive
April 20, 2026

Keeping Attraction Alive

When you fell in love, was it love at first sight, or did attraction grow with time? Jim Daly and Debra Fileta address how a person can fall in love with their mate, and enjoy the spring season of marriage. Also, Erin and Greg Smalley will address why taking care of yourself is good for your relationship Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Love in Every Season for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Loving Your Spo...
Are You Facing Spiritual Warfare?
April 15, 2026

Are You Facing Spiritual Warfare?

How do you know if you're facing spiritual warfare? Dr. Tim Muehlhoff and his wife Noreen joined Jim Daly to discuss 5 real signs that you're actually under a spiritual attack. Also, Greg and Erin open up about times they persevered when they tempted to be discouraged. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Defending Your Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored The Spiritual Battle for Your Marriage Counseling Consultation ...
Financial Unity Honors God
April 13, 2026

Financial Unity Honors God

If you're not on the same page financially, please know, you aren't the only couple facing that tension. Greg Smalley shares how many couples actually have a serious disagreement regarding finances. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn about how you can get on the same page with money. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Thriving in Love and Money for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Game Changing M...
You’re Not Your Spouse’s Holy Spirit
April 8, 2026

You’re Not Your Spouse’s Holy Spirit

What if you took a second to pray for your spouse before criticizing him or her? Jim Daly joins Ron and Deb DeArmond on why you cannot be your spouse's Holy Spirit. They also tell a beautiful story of how Ron proposed to her again decades after they'd gotten married. Then, Erin explains why it's good to remind your mate, "you're still the one." Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book I Choose You Today for your donation of any amount! Focus...
Starting with Prayer
April 6, 2026

Starting with Prayer

How do you and your spouse pray together? Greg and Erin Smalley open up about what Bible verses they pray over each other. Plus, Jim Daly speaks with Ryan and Selena Frederick on how The Lord's Prayer from the New Testament can be a good prayer outline for you and your spouse. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book 40 Prayers for My Spouse Bundle for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Making Prayer a Priority in Your...