Episodes

May 16, 2023

Three Components of a Marriage Meet Up

A great habit to establish is consistent communication with your spouse. To help you achieve that, Jim Daly talks with marriage experts Bill and Pam Farrel about three things you can discuss in a weekly meeting with your mate. Plus, John Fuller and Greg Smalley explain why it's good to be intentional in your communication. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the "Marriage Meet up Bundle" for your donation of any amount! Wife Wants Better Commu...
May 10, 2023

A Sure Foundation for Your Marriage

God's love is meant to be the foundation of a successful marriage. Greg talks with John about a couple he admires, and Erin shares how to lean on God's love, even if you're disappointed in your spouse. Also, Jim Daly talks with marriage counselors, Howard and Danielle Taylor, about the difference it makes to trust God in the relationship with your mate. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book "The Fundamentals of Marriage" for your donatio...
May 9, 2023

A No Break-Up Policy for Your Marriage

Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book "The Fundamentals of Marriage" for your donation of any amount! Counseling Department Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Covenant: The Heart of the Marriage Mystery If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.
May 4, 2023

Not Making Fun of Your Spouse

Finding reasons to laugh with your mate is healthy, but making fun of your spouse can be very bad for your relationship. Greg talks with John about a lesson he learned in his own marriage on this topic, plus Erin will provide some encouragement to people who have been hurt by their spouse's words. Also, Jim Daly talks with Chris and Jenni Graebe about things they've observed in other couples. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book "The Rh...
May 2, 2023

When a Fun Activity Doesn't Work for You

Have you ever tried something you expected to be fun as a couple, but it didn't work out? John talks with the Smalley's about how it's happened in their own marriage, and Jim Daly speaks with Chris and Jenni Graebe about things they learned from a vacation that didn't go so well. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book "The Rhythm of Us" for your donation of any amount! Three Ways to Invest in Your Marriage (And Have Fun Along the Way) S...
April 27, 2023

Asking Your Husband to Lead Well

How can a husband step up and lead well? Erin Smalley addresses common complaints she hears from wives about their husbands, and John and Greg discuss ways wives can be an encourager. Plus, Jim Daly and Dr. Juli Slattery share how wives can ask their husbands to lead their families well. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Get Juli Slattery's book "Finding the Hero in Your Husband" for your donation of any amount How Respecting Your Husband Can Make H...
April 25, 2023

When and When Not to Listen to Your Husband

Have you ever had a moment where you thought your husband was right about something, only to find out he was wrong? Greg shares a story with John and Erin about a time he made a mistake as a husband, and Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Juli Slattery about a funny moment with her husband. Plus, Erin will speak to wives who are discouraged because their husbands are not owning their faults. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Get Juli Slattery's book "Finding t...
April 20, 2023

The Power of Consistency

Being intentional about consistent communication is vital to the overall health of your marriage. Jim Daly talked with Bill and Pam Farrel about how they a weekly meeting with each other, and John speaks with Greg and Erin about establishing good habits in your relationship. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive Jeff and Sarah's book "Together Through the Storms" for your donation of any amount. Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Podcast Lifeti...
April 18, 2023

Keeping Humor Alive in the Hard Times

Having a sense of humor can help your marriage, even if you're facing a difficult season. John speaks with Greg and Erin about keeping laughter alive in your marriage during hard moments. Plus, Jim Daly talked to Jeff and Sarah Walton who have learned to keep humor in their relationship amidst some serious health challenges. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive Jeff and Sarah's book "Together Through the Storms" for your donation of any amount. ...
April 13, 2023

Maintaining a Healthy Friendship with Your Mate

A healthy marriage is built on a great friendship. John talks with the Smalley's about what has kept their friendship strong, and if you need to have common interests to be friends. Also, Jim Daly spoke with Howard and Danielle Taylor about how they've learned to be good friends, and have fun together. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book "The Fundamentals of Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com...
April 11, 2023

When Your Communication Style is Different

It's likely that you and your spouse have differing styles for how you handle conflict. John and the Smalley's explain how they've seen this play out in their own marriages. Plus, Jim Daly talked with Howard and Danielle Taylor about ways they learned to navigate their different conflict styles. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book "The Fundamentals of Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fo...
April 6, 2023

What On Your Table?

Several people would say their wedding day was very special. But a great marriage is about the journey afterwards. John, Greg and Erin discuss how to have a long-term perspective for your marriage, and Jim Daly talked with Chris and Jenni Grabe about something called a table of memories. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book "The Rhythm of Us" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-04-...
April 4, 2023

Returning to Your First Love

Many married couples, as they gain experience, tend to experience a slow drifting apart. John, Erin and Greg address how drifting can occur, and ways you can rekindle your love. Plus, Jim Daly talked with Jason and Tori Benham about a time they realized they needed to reconnect as a couple. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book "Beauty in Battle: Winning in Marriage by Waging a War" for your donation of any amount. Focus on Marriage As...
March 30, 2023

What is Real Submission in Marriage?

What does a healthy view of submission in marriage look like? Greg and John discuss that topic, and Erin offers encouragement to wives who have a difficult time seeing submission as good thing. Plus, Jim Daly spoke with Dr. Juli Slattery on what a biblical definition of wives submitting to their husbands is. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get Juli Slattery's book "Finding the Hero in Your Husband" for your donation of any amount. Focus on Marria...
March 28, 2023

Maintaining Emotional Intimacy in the Empty Nest Years

Reaching the empty nest years will create a lot of changes for your marriage, Greg addresses how couples can feel distant in the empty nest years, and John and Erin offer hope to couples who feel far apart. Plus, Jim Daly spoke with Dr. Juli Slattery on maintaining emotional connection in the empty nest years. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get Juli Slattery's book "Finding the Hero in Your Husband" for your donation of any amount. Focus on Marr...
March 23, 2023

Finding Hope When You Feel Resentment

Many spouses today feel as if there's a wall of resentment between each other. If you're in that situation, John, Erin and Greg will share about maintaining a sense of hope. Also, Jim Daly spoke with Sarah and Jeff Walton about how couples can rely on God during a tough time.
March 21, 2023

When Your Spouse's Mind Won't Change

What do you do when you're facing a crisis in your marriage and it feels like you're drifting apart? John and the Smalley's offer encouragement to struggling couples, and Jim Daly talks with Jeff and Sarah Walton about how they overcame a crisis in their relationship. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive Jeff and Sarah's book "Together Through the Storms" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-...
March 16, 2023

Finding a Common Purpose with Your Mate

How do you find a common purpose in your marriage, even if you work completely different jobs? John and the Smalley's answer that question, and Jim Daly speaks with Howard and Danielle Taylor on how couples can find a purpose together. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book "The Fundamentals of Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-03-14?refcd=1624502 Get more episode resourc...
March 14, 2023

Common Problems and Letting Go of Selfishness

Unrealistic expectations are common for young couples, but they're also a set up for disappointment. John, Greg and Erin share about common expectations couples have entering marriage, and how to practice selflessness in the relationship with your spouse. Featuring Mr. Howard and Mrs. Danielle Taylor. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book "The Fundamentals of Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/...
March 9, 2023

Three R's for Overcoming Temptation

Our choices today will impact our marriage tomorrow. That's especially true with how we respond to temptation. John, Greg and Erin discuss how to respond when you're tempted to believe lies about your spouse. Featuring Mr. Jason and Mrs. Tori Benham. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Get the book "Beauty in Battle" bundle with your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-02-09?refcd=1624002 Get more episode ...
March 7, 2023

How Conflict Can Make a Marriage Better

How do you feel about conflict? John and the Smalley's share how they feel about it, and also describe ways conflict can actually make your marriage stronger. Featuring Mr. Jason and Mrs. Tori Benham. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Get the book "Beauty in Battle" bundle with your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-02-09?refcd=1624002 Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episode...
March 2, 2023

Two Needs Wives Have

One of the best gifts a husband can give his wife is to understand what she needs. John talks with Erin about how much it means when a wife feels valued and protected by her husband. Featuring Dr. Juli Slattery. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get Juli Slattery's book "Finding the Hero in Your Husband" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-02-28?refcd=1617704 Get more episode resources: http://...
Feb. 28, 2023

The Respectful Helper Wife

An encouraging wife is something every husband longs for. Yet, what do you do when your husband is getting on your nerves a lot? John, Greg and Erin share about the power of encouragement and how to correct your husband without being disrespectful. Featuring Dr. Juli Slattery. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get Juli Slattery's book "Finding the Hero in Your Husband" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-pod...
Feb. 23, 2023

How Pain Can Purify Your Marriage

The New Testament reminds us to count it all joy when we face difficulties. Greg and Erin share with John about difficult times they've walked through in marriage, and provide some ideas for how to be patient with your mate during a tough season. Featuring Mr. Jeff and Mrs. Sarah Walton. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive Jeff and Sarah's book "Together Through the Storms" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/do...