Episodes

When it seems hopeless, Jesus will still meet you where you are. Your marriage might be struggling today, but God can do a miracle in your relationship. John and the Smalleys share how they've seen God restore broken marriages. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get Vicki Rose's book "Every Reason to Leave (& Why We Chose to Stay Together)" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-08-17?refcd=1142606...

Many marriages go through a dark season. If you're feeling discouraged today and wondering whether you and your spouse are going to make it, you've come to the right place for hope. Hear John, Erin and Greg explain how it's never too late for God to heal your broken marriage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get Vicki Rose's book "Every Reason to Leave (& Why We Chose to Stay Together)" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefam...

When we get angry at our family, there's typically a deeper reason why. It might even be rooted in unrealistic expectations. Erin, Greg and John discuss how to have healthy expectations for busy seasons, and ways to show your spouse grace when he or she gets upset. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don...

Like music needs a metronome to sound good, your marriage needs a rhythm to help you stay connected. But is that possible when your schedule feels overloaded? John, Erin and Greg discuss ways to make time for your spouse, even with a crowded schedule. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-...

Do you remember what it was like when you and your spouse first fell in love? The attraction was so strong. As time goes on, that same attraction can start to fade if you're not careful. John, Greg and Erin provide some helpful thoughts on how to not lose curiosity in your spouse. Featuring Dr. Marcus Warner and Pastor Chris Coursey. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages" for your donation of any amoun...

Just like a garden needs water, your marriage needs simple acts of love in order to thrive. John, Erin and Greg explain how they've seen little things help their marriages. They'll also offer some encouragement to couples who are struggling to love each other. Featuring Dr. Marcus Warner and Pastor Chris Coursey. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.foc...

Telling jokes can be a great way to liven up your marriage. But, a good punch line should never come at your spouse's expense. Greg, Erin and John explain why sarcasm can be toxic for your marriage. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get our "100 Ways to Love" book bundle for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-01?refcd=1132501 Get more episode resources: https:...

While doing things to help your spouse is wonderful, activities should never replace the joy of being together. Greg, Erin and John discuss how they've learned the importance of spending time with their spouses. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get our "100 Ways to Love" book bundle for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-01?refcd=1132501 Get more episode reso...

When you and your spouse were dating, what did you expect marriage to be like? The truth is, many of us go into a lifelong commitment with over-the-top expectations. John, Greg and Erin share examples from their own lives, and give tips for how to let go of unrealistic expectations as a newlywed. Featuring Bill and Vicki Rose. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive Vicki Rose's book "Every Reason to Believe" for your donation of any amount: http...

When you get married, it's easy to believe that marriage will solve your problems. However, such an unrealistic expectation can do great harm to your relationship. John, Greg, and Erin discuss what it means to have healthier expectations for marriage. Featuring Bill and Vicki Rose. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive Vicki Rose's book "Every Reason to Believe" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podca...

The truth is, small things can have a very big impact on your marriage. But as the little things add up, it can be hard to make time for each other. John, Greg, and Erin provide some helpful tips to couples who feel overwhelmed by their busy schedules. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast...

When you and your spouse were dating, you probably found each others' quirks to be funny. However, those same things you once thought of as cute can turn into little annoyances. John, Erin and Greg give some hope to couples who feel annoyed with each other. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-po...

For a lot of couples, talking about sex can feel awkward and uncomfortable. But it doesn't have to be that way. John, Erin and Greg offer encouragement to couples who've lost their passion for intimacy. Featuring Pastor Levi Lusko, Jennie Lusko and Jean Daly. Get the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-06?refcd=1122904 Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-o...

Submission is a biblical principle that will help your marriage. But what does it look like to practice it? John talks with Greg about what submission is not, and Erin discusses the power of an encouraging wife. Featuring Pastor Levi Lusko, Jennie Lusko and Jean Daly. Get the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-06?refcd=1122904 Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episode...

A small note, a gentle hug, a tender kiss. These things can add so much to your marriage. But what do you do when you don't feel like being affectionate? John Fuller and Erin Smalley remind us that we can still choose to be romantic with our mate, even when we don't feel like it. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the "100 Ways to Love" book bundle for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily...

Sometimes, a small act of love from your spouse can go a long way to brighten your day. But if we're honest, it's easy to neglect showing affection to your mate when life gets busy. John Fuller and Erin Smalley remind us why we shouldn't stop appreciating our spouse. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the "100 Ways to Love" book bundle for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm...

In marriage, it takes relying on God's wisdom to make wise choices. The same can be said for the financial choices you make. Erin Smalley and John Fuller discuss how to rely on God when you need to make big decisions on money. Featuring guests Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn's book "Thriving in Love & Money" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podca...

In a marriage, each spouse tends to have different priorities when it comes to money. In the same way, husbands and wives usually have different fears regarding finances. John Fuller and Erin Smalley offer thoughts for overcoming money fears as a couple. Featuring Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn's book "Thriving in Love & Money" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefami...

You and your spouse are on the same team. But if you believe lies about your mate, it can feel like you're competing against each other. John Fuller and Erin Smalley offer hope to struggling couples. Featuring Drs. Bob Paul and Greg Smalley. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-04-20?refcd=1112601 Get more e...

Learning to be more honest about how you feel is a wonderful way to grow with your spouse. John Fuller and Erin Smalley discuss how to get better at sharing your feelings with your mate as you gain life experience together. Featuring Drs. Bob Paul and Greg Smalley. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-04-20?r...

False assumptions about your spouse are toxic. If left undealt with, they can lead to mistrust. Erin and John offer hope to couples struggling with resentment and false assumptions. Featuring Pastor Levi Lusko, Jennie Lusko, and Jean Daly. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage" with your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-06?refcd=1111507 Get more resourc...

John, Greg and Erin discuss how saying "No" to lesser important things can benefit your marriage, and leave room for more important things. Featuring Pastor Levi Lusko, Jennie Lusko and Mrs. Jean Daly. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage" with your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-06?refcd=1111507 Get more resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/e...

It's easy to think that your marriage needs a big breakthrough when you want to reconnect with each other. But, that's not always the case. John, Greg and Erin discuss the importance of how small actions can go a long way in your relationship. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the "100 Ways to Love" bundle with your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2021-07-01?refcd=111...

John, Greg and Erin discuss how to best reconnect with your spouse when you feel distant in your relationship. Featuring Dr. Kevin Leman and Mrs. Jean Daly. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get the book "The Intimate Connection" with your donation of any amount: https://secure.anedot.com/focus-on-the-family/don-fofm-podcast-2021-03-09?source_code=1108105&donation_pledge_code=FRIENDSFAM Get more resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/...