Episodes
Aug. 24, 2021
When Super-Husband Isn't Enough
While doing things to help your spouse is wonderful, activities should never replace the joy of being together. Greg, Erin and John discuss how they've learned the importance of spending time with their spouses. Featuring Ma…
Aug. 19, 2021
All My Expectations!
When you and your spouse were dating, what did you expect marriage to be like? The truth is, many of us go into a lifelong commitment with over-the-top expectations. John, Greg and Erin share examples from their own lives, a…
Aug. 17, 2021
When the Pressure is Too Much!
When you get married, it's easy to believe that marriage will solve your problems. However, such an unrealistic expectation can do great harm to your relationship. John, Greg, and Erin discuss what it means to have healthier…
Aug. 12, 2021
Catch the Little Foxes
The truth is, small things can have a very big impact on your marriage. But as the little things add up, it can be hard to make time for each other. John, Greg, and Erin provide some helpful tips to couples who feel overwhel…
Aug. 10, 2021
More Than Just Roommates
When you and your spouse were dating, you probably found each others' quirks to be funny. However, those same things you once thought of as cute can turn into little annoyances. John, Erin and Greg give some hope to couples …
Aug. 5, 2021
Regaining Passion in Your Marriage
For a lot of couples, talking about sex can feel awkward and uncomfortable. But it doesn't have to be that way. John, Erin and Greg offer encouragement to couples who've lost their passion for intimacy. Featuring Pastor Levi…
Aug. 3, 2021
Let's Talk About Submission
Submission is a biblical principle that will help your marriage. But what does it look like to practice it? John talks with Greg about what submission is not, and Erin discusses the power of an encouraging wife. Featuring Pa…
July 29, 2021
The Gift of Affection
A small note, a gentle hug, a tender kiss. These things can add so much to your marriage. But what do you do when you don't feel like being affectionate? John Fuller and Erin Smalley remind us that we can still choose to be …
July 27, 2021
Small Actions That Show You Care
Sometimes, a small act of love from your spouse can go a long way to brighten your day. But if we're honest, it's easy to neglect showing affection to your mate when life gets busy. John Fuller and Erin Smalley remind us why…
July 22, 2021
Allowing God to Paint Your Financial Picture
In marriage, it takes relying on God's wisdom to make wise choices. The same can be said for the financial choices you make. Erin Smalley and John Fuller discuss how to rely on God when you need to make big decisions on mone…
July 20, 2021
Overcoming Your Fears About Money
In a marriage, each spouse tends to have different priorities when it comes to money. In the same way, husbands and wives usually have different fears regarding finances. John Fuller and Erin Smalley offer thoughts for overc…
July 15, 2021
Replacing Lies With the Truth
You and your spouse are on the same team. But if you believe lies about your mate, it can feel like you're competing against each other. John Fuller and Erin Smalley offer hope to struggling couples. Featuring Drs. Bob Paul …
July 13, 2021
Listen to Your Feelings
Learning to be more honest about how you feel is a wonderful way to grow with your spouse. John Fuller and Erin Smalley discuss how to get better at sharing your feelings with your mate as you gain life experience together. …
July 8, 2021
Getting Rid of Unhealthy Assumptions
False assumptions about your spouse are toxic. If left undealt with, they can lead to mistrust. Erin and John offer hope to couples struggling with resentment and false assumptions. Featuring Pastor Levi Lusko, Jennie Lusko,…
July 6, 2021
Saying NO to Lesser Important Things
John, Greg and Erin discuss how saying "No" to lesser important things can benefit your marriage, and leave room for more important things. Featuring Pastor Levi Lusko, Jennie Lusko and Mrs. Jean Daly. Find us online at focu…
July 1, 2021
Small Steps, Big Results
It's easy to think that your marriage needs a big breakthrough when you want to reconnect with each other. But, that's not always the case. John, Greg and Erin discuss the importance of how small actions can go a long way in…
June 29, 2021
When the Distance Feels Too Big
John, Greg and Erin discuss how to best reconnect with your spouse when you feel distant in your relationship. Featuring Dr. Kevin Leman and Mrs. Jean Daly. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-80…
June 24, 2021
Working Through Different Financial Priorities
In a marriage, one spouse tends to save money while the other prefers to spend it. When that's the case, how can you work together? John, Greg and Erin offer some ideas for how to get on the same page financially in your rel…
June 22, 2021
Why You Must Talk About Money
Financial stress is one of the most common reasons for conflict in marriages today. But, it's also something that many couples are uncomfortable talking about. John chats with Greg and Erin about how they've overcome financi…
June 17, 2021
Lies That Will Close Your Heart
Have you ever believed something untrue about your spouse? It's an uncomfortable question, but believing lies will always prevent your heart from being open to your mate. John talks with Erin and Greg about how they've learn…
June 15, 2021
What Your Spouse is Not
Your spouse might be amazing, but he or she cannot meet every expectation you have. In some way, he or she will fall short. John, Greg and Erin discuss how to let go of bad expectations in your marriage. Find us online at fo…
June 10, 2021
The Danger of Assumptions
A lack of communication can open the door to all kinds of unhealthy assumptions about your spouse. John, Greg, and Erin give some ideas for how to deal with negative assumptions in your relationship, and explain why reading …
June 8, 2021
Rules for Marriage Communication
Just like a professional sport needs rules to be played well, your marriage needs boundaries for effective communication. John talks with the Smalleys about rules they have in their own marriage for communicating with each o…
June 3, 2021
Moving on From Miscommunication
Greg and Erin talk with John about how they've learned to get passed misunderstandings, and why working through miscommunication is worth it. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Get…