Episodes

Feb. 1, 2022

Listening with Humility

When your child wants to tell you something, your first instinct might be to try and solve the problem. But what if one of the most effective things you can do is listen? John and Danny discuss how listening to your child can...
Jan. 27, 2022

When Your Child is Far from God

If you have a child who's far from God, you are not alone. While it can be one of the most heartbreaking things a parent may face, your child's story is not over. John and Danny offer hope to parents who have a child who's no...
Jan. 25, 2022

Parenting or Your Career?

Raising a child takes an extraordinary amount of time and commitment. At some point, you'll have to give up something in order to spend time with your son or daughter. John and Danny share about how they wrestled with balanci...
Jan. 20, 2022

Reasons for Your Child's Emotions

You get home after a long and exhausting day at work. But instead of coming home to a peaceful environment, your kids are at odds with each other. Sound familiar? Danny and John offer some ideas for listening to your child's ...
Jan. 13, 2022

Moms in the Bible

It's amazing what lessons we can learn from characters in the Bible. Even though they lived many years ago, their examples still speak to us today. John and Danny share about some biblical who inspire them in their parenting....
Jan. 11, 2022

The Adult They'll Become

When your child is young, you dream about the man or woman they'll become. But how do you prepare them for the future ahead? John and Danny share how you can invest in your child's future by teaching them God's Word. Featurin...
Jan. 6, 2022

Grace for Your Child's Mistakes

The Bible reminds us that God has shown us more grace than we deserve. As parents, we're given a beautiful and unique opportunity to point our kids to His kindness and love. John and Danny discuss ways you can show your kid g...
Jan. 4, 2022

Relationship Over Reputation

We've all been guilty of wondering, "What do others think about my parenting?" While self-awareness is healthy, being obsessed with your reputation as a mom or dad is not good. John and Danny share promises from God's Word yo...
Dec. 30, 2021

Healthy Respect and Good Boundaries

Watching your son or daughter make choices on their own can be exciting, but also nerve-wracking. But what do you do when he or she is determined to do things without your input? Danny and John give some tips on when it might...
Dec. 28, 2021

Giving Consistent Encouragement

Your child longs to be affirmed. The truth is, a little bit of encouragement can go a long way in helping your son or daughter. John talks with Danny about how he's seen encouragement make a difference in his parenting. Featu...
Dec. 23, 2021

Patterns of a Pleaser

How do you guide a child who wants to please everyone? While wanting to be liked is a good thing, trying to make everyone happy is a dangerous path for your son or daughter to walk. John and Danny discuss how to give your chi...
Dec. 21, 2021

"Let's Talk About It"

When your son or daughter is young, he or she tends to look up to you. However, that usually changes when your child becomes a teenager. John and Danny share how admitting some of your own mistakes can help bridge a gap betwe...
Dec. 16, 2021

Don't Walk Away

When your child is going through something difficult, you long to help. However, there are times when your efforts are not enough. In those situations, how do you respond? John and Danny provide some encouragement for when yo...
Dec. 14, 2021

The Influence of a Mentor

We all have blind spots in our parenting. To help see them, God might send a mentor to help coach you as a mom or dad. John and Danny share about the ways a mentor can benefit your parenting. Featuring Rhonda Stoppe. Find us ...
Dec. 9, 2021

When Perfectionism Becomes Toxic

As a parent, how do you respond when your son or daughter does something that catches you off guard? John and Danny discuss the importance of giving yourself grace, even when your child does something that embarrasses you. Fe...
Dec. 7, 2021

When Mistakes Meet God's Grace

No matter how hard you try, there are still moments you miss it as a parent. But when you do, God's grace can empower you to do better next time. John and Danny share some encouragement for moving on, even after you mess up. ...
Dec. 2, 2021

Don't Take the Bait!

When your teenager is rude to you, it can be easy to lash out. John and Danny discuss why setting boundaries is better than responding in anger to your teen. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson. Find us online at focusonthefamil...
Nov. 30, 2021

Affirming Your Daughter

As you're raising a daughter, it's very important to speak encouragement into her life. John and Danny will provide some practical ideas for helping your daughter find her true beauty. Featuring Matt and Lisa Jacobson. Find u...
Nov. 25, 2021

The Secure Connector Parent

Healthy parenting is possible with God's help. But how do you maintain a good attitude when your child is misbehaving? John and Danny will offer some helpful thoughts for when your son or daughter acts difficult. Featuring Mi...
Nov. 23, 2021

Parenting and Love Styles (Part 2 of 2)

We all have baggage from our family of origin. But what do you do when you start repeating your own parents' mistakes? John and Danny provide a dose of hope to parents who are discouraged because of the family they came from....
Nov. 18, 2021

Raising Your Boy to Become a Man

When your son was little, he needed you all the time. But as he's gotten older, his need for independence becomes stronger. How do you make that transition well? John and Danny provide some practical ideas for training your s...
Nov. 16, 2021

Encouraging Your Child's Strengths

Your child has special gifts and talents. A big key to being a good parent is recognizing and encouraging those abilities in your son or daughter. John and Danny discuss what it looks like to draw out the gifts in your child....
Nov. 11, 2021

Three Core Parenting Principles

Good parenting can always be traced to a healthy relationship with your children. But what does that look like? John and Danny discuss an important key for keeping a relationship strong, even when your child is acting up. Fea...
Nov. 9, 2021

Correcting a Counterfeit

"You need more things!" "You need to do more activities with your kids!" These are the lies our culture shouts at us. But believing them will do more harm to your family than good. John and Danny discuss how simplifying your ...